If you want something done

Why am I even up, let alone blogging at 10:20? Well, B and I are having a lil tiff. I get so frustrated sometimes because when the answer to a question isn't, "I don't know", it's, "I didn't think about that." Now there is, what seems to be, the problem in my world. The complete lack of thinking. Thinking about making plans, or planning ahead. Thinking about the consequences of seemingly insignificant actions. Thinking about how a lack of thinking might make someone else feel! Let me tell you how it feels, overwhelmed! (not to mention a little resentful because I feel like my mind is thinking even in my sleep!) Not only do I get to be Super Mom (which I do love), and then at least attempt Super Wife (which I haven't been so good at, but I'm trying darn it!), but I get to be designated Know-it-all. I am expected to know how and when every minute of every day about everything is supposed to go. I am also expected to facilitate such things. Making phone calls, running to and fro, mailing letters/thank yous/all cards. When something doesn't get finished up its because I didn't remind someone to do it, or I didn't do it first. I've been accused of dismissing suggestions and over riding them with my own plans, but come on people, if what you wanna do takes twice as long as what I wanna do, and potentially ends up with the same results then yes, I am going to speak up. And then what is the response I get?!?! "I didn't think about that." Thankfully tomorrow is another day, and a fun one at that. Happy 1st Birthday Lil Pooper! (It's early I know, but hey you can never have too much Birthday!!)